The only stupid question is the one that is not asked.
FAQs – Frequently asked questions
If you have any doubt you are welcome to write… but please check below before: you’ll probably find the answer you are looking for.
Will I be obliged to do anything?
Surely not! You’ll only do what you like and prefer, in the utmost respect for everyone. Yet we suggest you come with some ideas about what you’d like to do, so you’ll be able to dive right into the fun.
Will I be photographed or recorded?
Only if you want, only by the official photographer, and only after signing the official release form: law is very clear about your privacy rights. If you enjoy showing off, at the reception desk you can take a bracelet indicating your first consent to be photographed – and you’ll be able to preview your shots on signing the form.
What can I do in the Chill area?
Chat, meet people, have a drink at the bar, discuss, decompress after an especially intense session, relax – with no requirement to stay in role. Should something hotter develop, you can decide whether to deepen your acquaintance there on a softer tone, or move to the Play area.
What can I do in the Play area?
Of course you can use the special furniture to play and create a unique atmosphere – but you can also enter the Play area alone both to observe and to signal to the other guests that you’d like to be engaged with. What’s important in this area is to remain “in role”, so the approach is going to based on power imbalance right from the start.
How do I know where the Chill and Play area begin and end?
Besides how differently people behave within them, the two areas are clearly separated by a cordon: there is no risk of misunderstanding.
I am a great dominatrix: how much are you paying me to participate?
I am a woman, but submissive. Can I participate?
If I come alone, will I find a partner?
If I come as a single female, will I be besieged by single guys?
We do our best to keep disagreeable persons out, and the ambiance is usually much more respectful than a “normal” club. If you say “no” it’s no… and those who can’t understand will be booted out.
I never tried BDSM. How can I start?
Here! At the party you’ll find many persons who’ll be glad to help you and answer your questions. In the meantime, if you want to learn something you can have a look at Ayzad’s website and at his books
Will I find enough fetish girls/lesbians/queers/groups/slaves (or any other category you are into)?
This depends on the guests themselves. Anyone into the eroticism of female domination comes to Freedomina… except those who stay home waiting for others to go ahead and build a group! The best way to be sure of meeting the kind of person you like the best is to invite them to come along to the party.
So it’s no sex at all, then?
Let’s put it this way: you can also have sex, but within a BDSM play and in any case respecting other guests, who’ll probably want to use the place to do other things. If you really have the irresistible urge to fuck, the club provides a great private area just for this purpose.
Is this a swingers’ event?
No. Although you are free to set up group games or swap your partner, Freedomina is a chance to play BDSM. For “vanilla” sex there are so many other occasions…
I am a professional dominatrix. Can I advertise my business?
So what are those prodommes doing among the guests?
The very same things everyone else does. They visit Freedomina to enjoy BDSM play and meet friends old and new. Every guest is treated the same, and is required to respect the same rules.
Will I find drugs inside?
Are there prostitutes there?
The club does not tolerate prostitution. Anyone practicing it during the party will be booted out permanently.
Why are you holding it on a Sunday afternoon?
Why is the membership card more expensive than elsewhere?
The slightly higher cost allows the club to offer free cloakroom service, and to keep the bar prices lower than average, including free water and coffee, differently from other clubs. This also allows to keep out anyone not following the spirit of the hosted events, avoiding you the presence of peepers and boors.
Also, you can enter with any ARCO card, even if you got it from a different circle or club – but in this case some services will be paid separately.
Why single males aren't entitled to the age discount?
Because, differently from other events, Freedomina strives to create the specific condition for female domination undisturbed by other types of practices, and it also offers the ladies a series of additional services. Your little sacrifice helps financing all of this.
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